September 12, 2022

7 Fun Activities to Help Your Children Develop a Positive Attitude

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If you’re like most parents, you hope that your child grows up to be more than just a positive thinker, but that she will be able to harness that positivity and turn it into a positive attitude about life and the world around them.

Thankfully, there are plenty of activities you can do with your child from an early age to help them develop this kind of outlook on life.

You can start by working on our 7 activities to help your child develop a positive attitude.

 

The Importance of Developing Positive Attitude for Kids

It is important for kids to develop a positive attitude from childhood to adulthood. A positive outlook has been linked with better health, happiness, and success in life.

Negative thinking can lead to negative emotions, which can promote negative behavior and foster low self esteem. Encouraging positive thinking in children can help them develop into adults with a positive attitude.

There are quite a few common misconceptions about “positive thinking”. The key to remember is that positive thinking is not just pretending to be happy even when you are in the midst of a situation or environment that you do not like. Positive thinking is about changing ones perspective so that you can see the good or the benefit in any situation.

Creating the habit of changing your focus and looking for the positive side is a learned skill, not a personality trait that you are or are not born with. Helping your child acquire this skill at a young age helps to form strong patterns of behavior that become the automatic response when met with a challenge or negative circumstance.

Younger kids are more likely to change their attitudes when they are encouraged and praised when they do something positive. Positive events can also be used as an opportunity to discuss how these events made someone feel good or happy. Positive statements should be used when praising kids in order to reinforce positive attitudes.

Promoting positive thinking will encourage positive behavior, fostering positive thoughts that can last long-term if reinforced by the right things at the right time. These steps will prepare your child for a lifetime of positivity!

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Should We Dismiss Negative Thoughts?

As parents, we want to foster positive thinking in our children and help them develop a positive attitude. But is it okay to dismiss negative thoughts? And how to control these negative emotions? First of all, let’s start with some research.

The research suggests that negative emotionality in children is a phenotype that makes children more susceptible to rearing influence as well as a risk factor for problematic behavior. (Belsky & Pluess, 2009).

The way that we feel in any moment changes continually throughout our day. Our thoughts directly impact the emotions that we feel. When we are focused on something that we do not like, fear, or want to avoid we feel immediate negative emotions. However, when we shift our focus onto something that we love, enjoy, find amusing, or peaceful we feel an immediate shift in our emotions. Positive thoughts create positive emotions.

Negative attitudes can cause emotional distress, a decrease in self-esteem and motivation levels as well as impair interpersonal relationships. Children who are negatively influenced by their environment tend to perform poorly academically and have low self-esteem.

Children who demonstrate a positive attitude have been shown to be happier and more successful than those with a negative one.

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Where Negative Thinking Comes From

Our thoughts are constantly emitting electrical signals, which vibrate at a particular rate of frequency. The better the thought makes us feel, the higher the frequency of vibration. Adversely, thoughts that cause us to feel negatively emit a lower frequency of vibration. We are constantly drawing in more thoughts that are similar in frequency. Which is why, whatever we are focused on, expands. We are tuning to the frequency of other thoughts that are similar. Until we change our focus and therefore change our thoughts.

Simply put, negative thinking is the result of both our focus and our habit of thought. There are times when your child is simply having a bad day. Often times there is a circumstance that happened which set off a domino effect and the day continued to spiral. But other times, it might be indicative of something deeper going on. It could be that your child is worried about school, or feeling left out by friends. Whatever the case may be, it’s important to get to the root of the problem and help your child develop a more positive outlook.

“Children begin processing negative thinking or negative thoughts when they are told by parents, caregivers or teachers, ‘Don’t do that,’ ‘That’s not right,’ or ‘You’re breaking the rules,” says Jennifer Miller, an expert in social and emotional learning and author of Confident Parents, Confident Kids.

Here are seven activities that will help your child develop a positive attitude:

1) Loving-Kindness Meditation

When you practice loving-kindness meditation, you cultivate positive emotions like joy, happiness, and love. This type of meditation can also help children develop a more positive outlook on life.

To do this meditation, sit comfortably and close your eyes. Focus on your breath and think about someone or something that makes you feel happy. Visualize yourself with them, or in this place enjoying the moment. Now, extend that same feeling of warmth and happiness to yourself.

2) Goal Setting and Getting Results

One of the best ways to help your child develop a positive attitude is to encourage them to set goals and work towards getting results. When your child sees that they can achieve their goals, it will help them feel more positive about themselves and their abilities.

Additionally, teaching your child how to break down their goals into smaller steps will help them feel more confident and motivated as they work toward achieving their objectives.

Finally, praising your child for their efforts and accomplishments will reinforce positive thinking and help them maintain a positive outlook. What you most often say to your child becomes their inner dialog of what they say to themselves. Encourage a strong sense of confidence and self-belief as early as possible.

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3) Helping Others

One of the best ways to raise a positive thinker is to model positive thinking yourself. Explain to your child why it’s important to see the good in people and situations. Then, lead by example and look for the positive things in your own life.

Helping others is also a great way to encourage positive thinking. Volunteer with your child or have them help you with tasks around the house.

4) Try New Activities to Develop Their Creative Skills

When children try new activities, they are opening themselves up to new possibilities and experiences. This can help them develop thier creative skills, as they learn to think outside the box and come up with new ideas.

Plus, trying new things can be fun and exciting, helping your child to develop a positive attitude towards learning.

For example, if you ask your child what they want to do on Saturday morning, some of their ideas might include going for a bike ride, visit a friend or playing a game. Asking them about some of the activities they love most, or the places they enjoy being, or their favorite way to spend their day, you’ll get an idea of what makes them most happy and what really excites them.

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5) Capturing Awe Moments Every Day

Awe is one of the most powerful emotions we can feel. It has the ability to take us out of our everyday lives and make us see the world in a new light. Just as importantly, awe can also help us appreciate the good things in our lives and be more positive overall.

Studies have shown that experiencing frequent awe moments can lead to increased happiness and well-being. With that in mind, it’s important for parents to try their best to bring on these feelings when they arise by practicing the fun activities with their children on a daily basis.

6) Practice Positive affirmations

Positive affirmations are a simple, yet powerful tool that can help parents instill positivity in their children. By repeating positive statements about themselves, children can learn to view themselves in a more positive light.

The things we hear most often about ourselves become the foundation of what we believe about ourselves. Additionally, positive affirmations can help children develop a more positive outlook on life, which can lead to better academic performance and improved social skills. Grab our free guide here: The 17 Beliefs Every Empowered Child Grows Up Knowing (And What You Can Do To Ensure Yours Does Too!)

7) Sharing Positivity

Positivity is one of the most important things you can share with your children. It helps them develop into happy, successful adults.

To share positivity, try taking time out of your day for a random act of kindness or simply tell your child something good about themselves. By focusing on their good qualities and providing them with praise, they will start to see themselves in a more positive light as well.

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10 Parenting Tips to Instill Positivity in Children

Positive thinking and attitude has been proven to contribute to the development of resilience in children, which is beneficial when it comes to dealing with life’s many challenges.

Here are 10 parenting tips to instill positive thinking and a positive attitude in your children.

Let them share positive events with you

If you want your children to think positively, then you need to be a positive thinker yourself. Promote positive thinking by being a good role model for your children.

For example, if your child has done something well, tell them how fantastic they did and their work is phenomenal. Negative thoughts and emotions will become more prevalent when they see the same negative attitude coming from their family members or other adults.

Let them try new things

When children are allowed to try new things, they not only build their skillset but also their confidence. Allowing your child to experience different activities, even if they don’t excel at them, can help prevent psychological issues later on.

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Positive Reinforcement

One way to instill positivity in children is through positive reinforcement. This means rewarding them when they display positive behaviors. For example, if your child cleans up their room without being asked, you could praise them and give them a small reward. It could be a sticker, a treat, extra time to spend doing what they love; you can even create a point system that keeps track of their good behavior that can be accumulated for a bigger reward.

Encourage and motivate your kids

Encouraging and motivating your kids can be done in many ways. One way is by constantly affirming them with positive words. Another way is by setting a good example for them to follow.

Surround your kids with positive people

One of the best things you can do for your children is surround them with positive people. The more positive role models they have in their lives, the more likely they are to develop into positive, well-rounded adults themselves.

Don’t micromanage everything they do

If you want your children to grow up to be positive and independent, it’s important not to micromanage everything they do. Give them the space to make their own decisions, even if they’re not always the right ones.

Let them make mistakes and learn from them

As much as we want to protect our children from making mistakes, it’s important to let them make positive ones. It’s how they learn and grow.

For example, if your child is too young for a pet but wants one, go visit the humane society together. Let them interact with the animals and you can explain what pets need in order to be happy at home.

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Give your kids responsibilities and assign tasks based on their age

Giving your kids age-appropriate responsibilities not only helps teach them valuable life skills, but can also instill a sense of pride and accomplishment. Even if they are not capable of accomplishing the task to the degree you would do it, allow them to take part in the activity. This instills a sense of pride and independence at a young age. Everyone wants to feel useful, no matter how old they are. And when they see you working hard to maintain a positive attitude, they’ll be more likely to do the same.

Let them express their feelings

It’s important to let your children express their feelings, whether they’re happy, sad, or angry. This will help them feel comfortable communicating with you and will allow you to better understand their needs.

Instill positivity through games and stories

You can instill positivity in your children through games and stories. For example, telling them a story about a character who overcomes obstacles can show them that anything is possible if they set their mind to it.

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Looking for more tips for your child’s development?

Check out our blog for more tips on positive parenting tips. From sleep training to positive affirmations and learned optimism, we have the resources to help you every step of the way.

Plus, download our free e-book from here: How To Break The Cycle Of Negative Generational Parenting Patterns, Overcome Mindset Blocks (And raise a confident child who believes they can accomplish anything!)

FAQs

What are examples of positive attitudes?

Positive attitudes can be exemplified in many ways, such as smiling, being happy for other’s success, being kind, and having self-compassion. instilling these values in children from a young age will help them grow into well-rounded adults.

How do you stay positive for kids?

To stay positive for kids, parents need to take care of themselves. Make sure you are eating well, getting enough sleep, and spending time with people who make you happy. When children see their parents being happy and fulfilled, they will feel happier too.

What are positive psychology activities?

Positive psychological activities mean spending time with your children doing things they enjoy. When you are close with your children, it makes them feel loved and important. Spend time playing games, coloring together, reading a book or going for a walk.

Spending quality time with your children is important for their physical and mental health. It also helps them develop the ability to cope well when they don’t get what they want or need.

What is positive thinking example?

Positive thinking is important for a person’s mental health. Children who are raised with positivity have a better chance of being successful and happy. Parents can provide their children with the opportunity to be positive by following these parenting tips:

What you teach your children about themselves will make them feel more confident, valued, and happy.

Let them know they’re loved by doing things like hugging, kissing, telling them I love you, and giving compliments on things they’ve done well.

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How do you take positive action?

You can take positive actions by showing your children appreciation, being a good role model, having an optimistic outlook on life, and looking for the silver lining. Praise them when they are doing well. Be a good role model and live an optimistic life.

For example, you could tell your child that even though you had to stay home today because of the rain, we were able to cuddle together on the couch with a book instead of going out so it was still a great day.

How do you practice optimism?

To practice optimism, you have to be a life-long learner and have the right perspective.

Here are 4 ways you can practice optimism:

1. Celebrate small successes.

2. Be flexible with yourself.

3. Be grateful for what you do have instead of focusing on what you don’t have

4. Find your passion and pursue it

Remember that success is not all about money or fame – it’s about happiness. Remember that the people who seem to have everything are not always happy and that just because someone has less than you doesn’t mean they’re unhappy either.

Conclusion

Children are like sponges, they absorb everything around them. So it’s important that we as parents provide them with a positive environment and instill positive values in them.

When parents express negativity to their children, it can negatively affect the way their children feel about themselves. They may begin feeling less confident or start believing negative things about themselves.

On contrary, when children see us being happy and content with ourselves, they will want to emulate those feelings which is why being a good role model is so important for our kids!

A positive attitude in children leads to an optimistic life. It takes two people to create a positive atmosphere; both adults and children need to work together. We all want what’s best for our children, but sometimes we get caught up in dealing with adult stresses and forget how much of an impact our words have on their young minds.

The next time you’re tempted to say something negative, avoid it and try your best to come up with something more positive. You’ll be amazed at how quickly positivity can flow from one person to another if you just put in a little effort!

Taryn Crimi

Taryn Crimi

Taryn is an international intuitive, focused on helping to empower you manifest your best life!

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